Thursday, November 18, 2010

Follow-up to Crayon Discussion

Dear Families,

There were several topics that we discussed last session that I will follow up on during the break between sessions.  We discussed crayons and coloring for young children.  I recommend the book Understanding Children's Drawings by Michaela Strauss, in which the author has studied pictures (scribbles) from around the world and drawn interesting conclusions about developmental similarities in children and how these are reflected in archetypal early forms--the scribble, the swirl, the dot, the cross, the closed circle.  Strauss also notes that it is not necessarily good or bad that a child starts drawing at 18 months or 2 years or 3 years or 4, noting that children who start a little later tend to go through the same developmental archetypes of all children, just a little more quickly.  In class, I reflected that it is fine for our youngest children to draw but we need not worry if our children show no interest in drawing.  Helle Heckmann--master early childhood teacher from Denmark--reminded me fairly strongly in an evaluation that in the first 4 years, our children benefit more from gross motor experiences (the crawling, climbing, tumbling, wrestling, building, falling, and so forth) and that I would want to avoid distracting children from this by having too many fine motor activities such as stringing cranberries together.  I have heard and read elsewhere of the value of allowing our youngest children to move freely and develop their gross motor skills first, and then this will help their fine motor skills when the time is right.

When I began as an assistant teacher in 1997, early childhood teachers in Waldorf Classrooms were beginning to take a hard look at the use of block crayons in early childhood--up to that point they seemed a natural gift for early childhood classrooms: they did not break; no paper to be removed; they seemed to encourage exploration and divergent artistic thinking rather than outlining and perhaps more convergent form making. Remedial teachers such as Ingun Schneider were asking kindergarten teachers to take a second look the the use of thick, block crayons. As Schneider points out in her article on supporting the development of the hand, our arms and shoulders become very tense when we hold a block crayon; they are noticeably less tense when holding a stick crayon and pencil. Remedial teachers began to wonder if the overuse of block crayons in kindergarten classes were interfering with a smooth and natural process of developing pencil grip and learning to write. I remember my lead teacher packing away all the block crayons and purchasing stick crayons to use exclusively.

Not long after this I was fortunate to take a week of classes with Ingun Schneider as part of my training to become a lead teacher, and for me the use of stick crayons for very young children (including toddlers) made a lot of sense. As with any educational system, there are different opinions and streams, and I respect colleagues who make more frequent use of block crayons. That being said, one preference I have for stick crayons (or even sturdy colored pencils) for young children is that they help dispel the illusion that in a Waldorf early childhood setting everything needs to be soft and fuzzy: there are places for lines and angles as in the crosses and scribbles young children make as they work with crayons; and there is space for lines and hard spaces and toddlers work through conflicts as we have read in recent articles on toddler conflicts.

Schneider's article provides helpful insights into how we can help our children develop; she begins with infancy and early toddlerhood. If we can allow our children opportunities to move, climb, roll, crawl, fall, and tumble, we allow them the chance to form the foundations for fine motor development in future years.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Thank You for the Session, Looking Ahead

Dear Families,

Thank you for bringing your children, your work, your joy, and your good will to our fall session.  It was wonderful to be in the presence of you and your children, and I look forward to having you join our classes in the New Year--at which point we will have both Thursday and Friday classes.  You may register for either day, regardless of your child's age.

Thanks to families that attended Monday's meeting on a dark and stormy night.  It seemed just right to have nursery and parent & child families together--making the group the right size for sharing and discussion.  I plan to gather us with interested nursery families and community members two or three times in the new year for various lecture and/or discussion topics.  If you have other thoughts or ideas or topic inspirations, please share them.

You are all invited to next Wednesday's Advent Study in the Butterfly Classroom at 7pm, November 17.  It will be led by other faculty members and help share a bit about the Advent season, ideas for home, and more.  With apologies, I will not be present; I will be at another meeting at the time.

I look forward to seeing you tomorrow at our lantern walk.  Please review a past blog post if you forget your invitation time.  First, it is a lovely event, and I want you to feel welcome.  It also has some unique scheduling needs to make it run smoothly, and I want to clarify or repeat 4 points.

1.  Please arrive as close to your actual start time as possible.  If you are early, your car's arrival may interrupt a quiet moment at the end of the previous group's lantern walk.

2.  Please park in the parking lot on the right once you turn into Old Pietila Rd.

3.  We will have lanterns for you.  Because I will be leading the walk, I will not hand them out.  You may take any of the lit paper lanterns that do not have a name tag (those are designated for specific nursery children).

4.  To make best use of the outdoor space (Relles Performance Hall), we are replacing our traditional puppet show with storytelling and a tableau.

We will have our parent & child and community Advent spiral on Thursday, December 16, at Relles Hall (same location where we will gather for the lantern walk).  This will take place at 10am and last for about half an hour. There is no school for kindergarten siblings of our parent & child children that day; older siblings are welcome to join us and watch or support their younger brother or sister (kindergarten students will have their walk the night before).

Expect in the coming weeks blog posts about topics we have discussed--crayons and hand development, painting with children, sharing.  Please let me know if there are other topics you'd like me to write about.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde


Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Lantern Walk invitation

LANTERN WALK
The sunlight fast is dwindling,
My little lamp needs kindling,
Its beam shines far in the darkest night,
Dear lantern, guard me with your light.
~ M. Meyerkort
Dear Early Childhood Families,

As winter approaches we will kindle the light within us all at our upcoming Lantern Walk on Friday November 12th. We will gather our courage for the dark days ahead as we walk into the night with our shining lanterns guiding us. The lanterns are a symbol of our inner light that must be kindled during the long winter months ahead.

There will be three lantern walks, one at 4:30pm, 5:30pm and 6:30pm. Please check the end of this letter to see which lantern walk your family is scheduled to attend. Siblings are welcome if they are able to support a reverent mood and stay close to their parents at all times during the festival, including the walk where they should be by the side of their parents. They can bring their own lanterns if they have one. If you have a conflict with the lantern walk you are scheduled to attend please swap with another family and please inform your teacher. We are not able to add children to the lantern walks as they are all very full.
 
Please arrive on time and walk quietly to the pavilion where we will have hot apple cider. Please do not arrive early or late. (This is very important).  The timing of our walks is close and so we have to remain on schedule. Park in the lower parking lot just off Campbell Rd (you turn immediately right as you come into the main driveway on Old Pietila Road).

After everyone has arrived we will watch a puppet play in the pavilion. (Please dress very warmly). The teachers will then lead us on the lantern walk. After the lantern walk we will lead you back to your cars and say goodbye.

This is a quiet and reverent festival and we ask that you help support this mood by quietly guiding your children through the experience.

Blessings


Dyanne, Kim and William




4:30pm Lantern Walk
Ruari and Callum Keith
Viola Butters
Corey Lindstrom
Phoebe Holland –Thompson
River Stephens
Beatrice Zabel
Leon Kohlhass
Cooper Patty
Yarrow Batiste
Olivia Sichel
Atam Zimmerman
Walden Sagmeister
Ianna King
Sara Teevin
Sylvia Anton – Erik
Benjamin Cone
Ian Woodrow

5:30pm Lantern Walk
Josephine and Jack McAuliff
Julian and Soren Walston
Kailey and Alena Henderson
Wilder and Grace Yanz
Sonia and Gabby Toombs
Michael Cardosa
Ada Faith – Feyma
Annie Kate McDanniel
Edythe Donham
Anna and Thor Umlauff

6:30pm Lantern Walk
Crispin Dolde
Slater Canright
Forrest Erickson
Briar and Miles Morgen
Zachary Rosenberger
Sam Simons
Genny and Joey Edmonds
Ava Johnson
Amanda Kehl
Kiera Sherman
Josephine Chia
Sterling Gardiner
Natascha Graner
Hugo and Rain Costello
Sierra and Nicholas Muller

Saturday, October 30, 2010

More background for November 8's talk

Dear Families,

Here is another document as background for my talk on November 8.  It involves ideas to inspire us to plan for our time with our young children.

Expect an invitation to the lantern walk on Friday, November 12, soon.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

Monday, October 18, 2010

Public Talk, Monday, November 8

On Monday, November 8, I will host a parent evening in the Butterfly Classroom from 6:30 to 8pm.  This is open to nursery and parent & child families as well as to others in our school community and the Whidbey Island, Mukilteo, and Everett Communities.  While I will direct my talk toward parents of young children, some insights may be of interest to parents of older children as well.

The topic will be

Confident Captain, Zen Captain
Guiding Our Family Ship Through Calm Waters
and Wandering Rocks

As parents and teachers, we find ourselves presented with a wealth of resources on how to parent, how to teach, how to discipline, how to speak to our children.  At times it often seems we have too much information and would wish for clarity and simplicity.  Should we be stricter?  Or are we being too strict?  Are we giving enough choices or too many?  Many well written articles and books seem to contradict one another:  some argue that what our children need most is form; others petition for giving our children freedom.

Our children, of course, need form and freedom, and--here is the rub--every child or group of children needs a different mixture of the two at different times.  Using the metaphor of a captain at sea, William Dolde will gather insights he has gained from teaching, from reading, and from his own mistakes (shipwrecks) to suggest ways we can find a balance that works for individual families.  The captain has to be confident to gain the trust of the crew; the captain has to be competent.  Yet the captain must also be flexible and respond to the winds and the waves.  The captain must also be observant and friendly to the crew; otherwise, the captain invites mutiny.

As preparation, parents may wish to read the following selections I have put together.

"Beyond Personal," my summary of a way of speaking described by Polly Berrien Berends in Whole Child/Whole Parent.

Here are some general thoughts on speaking to toddlers that I have collected.

Sometimes the seas are rocky.  Here are thoughts I collected on how to speak to a young child during times of tantrum and other intense times.

With Warmth and Light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

Friday, October 15, 2010

Articles on Toddler Conflict

Dear Families,

As I mentioned in class, I have no intention of swamping parents with reading material.  It happens that I have had a number of meaningful questions and comments from parents that remind me of articles to distribute.

Here are two articles about conflict among young children.  The first comes from Sophia's Hearth, in Keene, NH. 

Sophia's Hearth (named to remind us of the wisdom that comes from domestic activities such as baking and cleaning in the heart of the house) was founded by Susan Weber, a Waldorf kindergarten teacher who wanted to help bring the gifts of Waldorf early childhood education to very young children.  The story goes that Weber, along with kindergarten teachers Cynthia Aldinger and Rena Osmer traveled the country in an old station wagon (some of these details are probably getting embellished with years), looking at infant and toddler care centers and parent & child programs.  Finally, they arrived in Los Angeles and the RIE (Resources for Infant Educarers) classes of Magda Gerber.  Instantly they felt a connection could be made.  Weber went on to train with Gerber (and at Loczy in Budapest, Hungary, where Gerber picked her up wisdom) and to create Sophia's Hearth as a place to train parents and teachers, hold Waldorf parent & child classes, and to create a model childcare center for children birth to three.  Weber makes a clear link with the work of RIE in all her literature.  I find a number of the other articles on the Sophia's Hearth website helpful.

The second article about conflict is by RIE instructor Beverly Kovach.  Her article is addressed to caregivers (adults working children in larger group situations).  In our mixed age parent & child classes, we have more adults and children of different ages, so our careful observation may inspire us to intervene more than a caregiver might in the classroom described by Kovach.


Kovach was one of my instructors when I took my RIE 1 training in Los Angeles.  The Kathrine Dickerson Memorial Library has a number of books by RIE founder Magda Gerber.  1, 2, 3 . . . The Toddler Years, also in the library, has helped many parents of young children through times of biting, hitting, separation anxiety, sibling rivalry, and the like.  Many elements of Gerber's work resonate with what we provide in the Waldorf classroom; there are some variations.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Good job and praise

Dear Families,

Thank you for your presence in class this morning.  It is wonderful to observe the joy and engagement of our children as they work and play.

Some of you heard a discussion about the phrase "good job" and how praise can inhibit learning.  I mentioned two articles and am making them available below.  Too much global praise (good job, good girl, great job, you're so smart) can make a child risk averse and less likely to prosper academically, emotionally, and socially. I have published links to these articles before, but I offer them again here to make them easy to find.

This article from New York Magazine offers a parent's perspective on the research.

This article from Scientific American Mind is by Professor Carol Dweck (the researcher mentioned in the previous article) and is a bit more formal in nature.

Parenting and teaching is an art, and we are always moving toward balance.  I would be remiss if I suggested you should never praise your child.  Specific, appreciation of a child's effort and loving and perhaps silent witness of our children's achievements every day are wonderful.  Without worrying too much about it, the more we can be fully present in the situation and describe what we actually see ("You put on your boots all by yourself.  It took a while, but you kept trying") rather than leaving the present moment with an evaluative statement ("You are a good boy.), the more we help our children stay in the present moment, learn from it, and develop in a graceful way.

Next week I will write more on this from the perspective of discipline and guiding our family ship through the waves and currents of the day.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde