Thursday, March 31, 2011

Essentials of Waldorf Early Childhood Education

Dear Nursery and Parent & Child Families,

Over the past couple of months I have had several discussions with parents about traditions in Waldorf early childhood classrooms--specifically, that what you find in one Waldorf school you may not find in another, and that the point is not that the teachers are following a fixed schedule or list of activities, but that they are observing the children and working out of a picture of child development guided by the insights of Rudolf Steiner and creating a rhythm and environment that serves the children. We were also discussing that parents need not feel they have to do exactly "this" or "that" to be Waldorf parents (indeed, Eugene Schwartz makes fun of this concept that schools and teachers have unintentionally created, that there is only one way to parent to be a "Waldorf" parent), or to have exactly the same rules or approaches in every home--but rather that the parents, like the teachers, observe their children with presence and foster a loving environment that helps that child. In this light, it is OK if one home varies from another.

In the article below, Susan Howard--the chair of the Waldorf Early Childhood Association of North America--describes the essentials of Waldorf Early Childhood Education.


http://www.iaswece.org/waldorf_education/what_is.aspx

Among the many aspects of the article I like is that Howard is able to bring the words of Waldorf education's founder, Rudolf Steiner, to light in description of various elements (love and warmth, free play, working out of imitation, adults on a path of inner development) important to Waldorf early childhood education. She also cautions us as teachers (and I would add as parents) against doing something just because every other teacher (or parent) before has done it; if in our observation and meditations it does not seem like the right activity (or if other activities fulfill the same role), we need not do it just because everyone else has.

I remember being in teacher training and hearing teachers share some of the best practices from teachers they were working with. A lot of wonderful ideas and inspirations came pouring into the room. I also sensed dread and anxiety mounting in the room as new teachers wondered how they would fit every best practice into their rhythm of the day. If they did, the day would be so stressful and hurried, no one would be nourished. At that boiling brew of ideas, I began to focus on descriptions of what experienced teachers were not doing, of what it was OK not to do. I thought of a quote I had read as I was entering public early childhood education a few years before--"The most important thing is to know when to keep your mouth shut"--and postulated for myself a Waldorf phrase, "The most important thing is to know that you don't have to try to fit everything in." Over the years, I marvel at the amount of activities I have allowed to slip away as I find my path toward what is essential in early childhood. I have a long way to go.

Howard also touches upon our ongoing discussion of the balance between form and freedom, of the benefit of working of out of imitation and not explanation in the first seven years.

Finally, Susan Howard also makes clear that Waldorf education is not anything goes; our manner toward the children grows out of observation, presence, research, and meditation.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Prewelcome to the Spring Session

Dear Families,

I look forward to seeing you this Thursday and Friday. I want to wait to send a longer welcome (with song lyrics, words to my rhymes, and reminder of the rhythm of the day) because a few families are still in the process of enrolling, and I want to make sure they receive the information they need.

We will continue to make soup and bread. Thanks for bringing vegetables and empty jars.

The spring session brings the Maypole, the bird symphony in the woods, and garden friends visiting a flower.

Please note that we will have two weeks of class (March 31 and April 1; and April 7 and 8). Then our school will be closed for two sets of parent & child classes; no classes on April 14 and 15 or April 21 and 22. We will resume on April 28 and 29. Have no worries about fees not reaching far enough; the two week break was taken into account when establishing the pricing for each session.

I will write more soon. If you are returning and have not made clear your intentions to our enrollment office, please do so as soon as possible.

Thanks,

William Dolde
Wdolde at gmail.com

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Flowering Branches

Dear Nursery and Parent & Child Families,

As we transform the shelter in which Mother Earth will sit on Friday, it has occurred to both Lynne and me how nice it would be to decorate with some branches from a flowering tree.

If any of you have such a tree in blossom now and wouldn't mind pruning a branch or two to share, I would be very thankful. My ideal would be that this extra decoration would be a surprise to the children (I'll set it up Thursday afternoon), so if you are a nursery family and could drop off branches in the boiler room after dropping off your child Wednesday, that would be great. You could bring them directly to my classroom on Thursday, as well.

Thanks,

William

Monday, March 21, 2011

Eugene Schwartz Lecture

Dear Families,

The Kathrine Dickerson Memorial Library has a number of cds of lectures by both Kim John Payne (of whom I make frequent reference) and by the very experienced Waldorf Class Teacher Eugene Schwartz. Schwartz does an excellent job of relating the ideas of Rudolf Steiner to the practice of Waldorf Education--and in some instances, parenting.

I recently listened to his lecture 116--"Freedom of Choice, or Freedom from Choice" and want to recommend it to you (I am returning it to the library tomorrow). When I listened, it seems Schwartz's topic helped a great deal to help us as parents find the middle ground between form and freedom--what we talked about and I wrote about in relationship to manners from our parent discussion several Tuesdays ago. He describes child development in light of Anthroposophy and world history--and exhorts us as parents to realize our children benefit from different forms of discipline in different developmental periods (though as a father of 4 himself, he knows it is not easy, and that sometimes we borrow from another phase of parenting). As much as possible, we work out of imitation in the first seven years. Even as we are working to establish healthy habits in the first seven years, Schwartz encourages us to try to do this by looking at ourselves as role models and in the environments we place our children in; ideally, according to Schwartz, we need not say "no" to our children in the first 7 years because we have structured ourselves and the environment to guide children naturally toward right behavior (Schwartz acknowledges that this is easier said than done).

For children in the grades, the teacher of parent guides the children not through imitation, but through authority. The adult is like a monarch (not a dictator or authoritarian). Like I speak of elsewhere, children want to know that the captain of the ship is confident and has a sense of where the ship is going, that the Queen will feels competent to govern her home.

In both developmental phases, children receive a great gift from us if we can limit the amount of choices we give them. Too many choices too soon can paralyze a child--and eventually wake up faculties (the astral body) that are better suited to serve adolescence (and ideally to be awakened at age 35). Children want to know that we adults understand what is right; they feel cheated if we hand over decision making powers to them too soon.

Schwartz is a compelling speaker, and I recommend you listen to his lecture yourself. Of particular note, again, is his ability to introduce us to concepts from Steiner that might seem obscure in other contexts.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Spring Festival, Friday March 25

Dear Families,

Please consider attending our Butterfly, Rosebud, and Dewdrop Spring Festival on Friday, March 25, from 9 to 10:30am.  Please invite friends as well. This is open to the community.

Location:  Outside the Butterfly Classroom and in the woods nearby, Whidbey Island Waldorf School.
Invited Guests:  In addition to current Butterfly, Rosebud, and Dewdrop children and parents, friends, and grandparents, we invite all families with young children to attend.
This is mainly an outdoor festival.  Be prepared for the weather.


Brief Synopsis  This festival provides an imaginative picture of how seasons change.  Young children can experience the changing seasons as a vivid drama.   After a puppet show, we will walk to meet Mother Earth, Father Sun, Brother Wind, and Sister Rain. After the walk, we will return to the playground for snacks, play, and conversation. If weather permits, I will end our festival with fiddle tunes and dancing outside.

Why a Festival?  There are a number of good books about festivals in the Kathrine Dickerson Memorial Library (in the lobby of our school). Here also is an article written by an experienced kindergarten teacher from Santa Cruz Steve Spitalny about festivals. Although Steve is writing for teachers in this article, he helps us as parents as well simplify and clarify our thinking about marking the seasons of the year to support our children.  Festivals can be seeds of renewal, to help children adults frame the year.


Music  While there may be more songs, here are lyrics to two songs we will sing often.


While the children often find the festival more magical and nourishing if they can have the experience without explanation beforehand, this more detailed description for adults will prepare to help if needed (please do not share with children).

9 to 9:30am  Children and parents come to the playground outside the Butterfly classroom.  Bread and butter, water, and herbal tea will be available in the shelter.  Children play and/or eat.

9:40am I will lead you into the Butterfly Classroom and will present a puppet show (children can keep shoes and coats on; we are going right back outside).

9:50am  William will lead us into the woods to the teepee (the walk is 200 yards at the most).  There, Mother Earth will silently greet us.  She will present William with a fiber pot and plant a seed into the pot.   Ideally, Mother Earth will present a pot and seeds to each child.  If there are many children, and the waiting seems too stressful, William (and other parents) will help.  It is nice, however, if things do not feel rushed.  Some children, of course, may be intimidated by Mother Earth, so a parent could receive the gift for the child.  Be prepared to help your child carry the pot.  We will have extra potting soil and seeds at the end of the walk if, as is possible, your child's pot spills.  We thank Mother Earth.

9:55am (or so) We walk out of the woods.  Father Sun greets us.

10am (or so)  We walk farther.  Sister rain greets us by the fountain and waters our pots.

10:05am (or so) Back at the playground, Brother Wind greets us and presents us with a large spring cloth for dancing.  We thank Brother Wind.  Unless it is bitterly cold, William will play the fiddle as parents and children dance with the large cloth from Brother Wind.

10:15am Children play some more, children and parents eat more snack.  Each child is welcome to take home a pot.  There will be extra in case one is misplaced or spilled

10:30am  Children and parents depart.  Beginning at 10:45am or sooner, elementary children come outside for recess, and it will be good to leave them space.

Please call 341-5686 or contact wdolde at gmail.com with any questions.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Up the Rainbow Bridge

Dear Dewdrop and Rosebud Families,

As some to many of you know, a beloved 4 year old in our community passed away on Tuesday. She was part of our parent & child program and played and danced throughout my nursery class last year. It was a blessing to me to know her. For 2 years, she and her parents lived with a brain tumor, surgeries, treatments, and difficult choices. This beautiful child died in her sleep with her parents beside her.

On Friday, I will not be present at Castle Park for our informal gathering at 11:30am. I will be visiting this child's home and then attending the funeral. I encourage you to gather at the park without me. I think it will bring joy as this child returns to her work in the spiritual world to see community here on earth.

If you want more details, please contact me at wdolde at gmail.com.

We will gather next Friday, March 25, at the school from 9 to 10:30am for our Spring Festival. Our Spring session begins the week after that, March 31 and April 1.

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde

Friday, March 11, 2011

Friday gathering

Dear Parent & Child Families,

At our talk and discussion last Tuesday night, it seemed like a good idea to invite parent & child families to join us for our informal nursery gatherings. Traditionally these have been occasional Friday night potlucks at Maxwelton Beach.

I am going to hold off from Friday night Maxwelton Beach potlucks until I know for sure the bathrooms are open (and I have a month of Friday commitments).

In the meantime, I am hoping to offer some informal gathering times for us at other times. To this end, I invite any families who are interested to join me at Castle Park on Friday, March 18, from 11:30 to 1pm or so (I have to be back to teach 4th grade violin at 1:05). Let us not try a potluck; just bring a picnic for your family. If, of course, you have a lot of extra nettle salad or kale carpaccio (or something else) you want
to share with others, that is lovely, too.

On Friday, March 25, from 9 to 10:30am, all nursery and parent & child families and friends in the community and visitors are invited to our early childhood Spring Festival. I will post more details soon.

And, yes, as the days lengthen and bathrooms open, I will offer more gatherings that are easier to attend for folks who work 9 to 5 (or 6 to 2).

With warmth and light,

William Geoffrey Dolde